More on "Training your spouse"

There is something not right about "taining your spouse like shamu".

I am sure it works. After all we are not all that different than shamu as the meaning of life goes. I can't find there is anything wrong with the approaches the author of the article uses to change her husbands' behavior. However, what is not right is the under-tone of the article. It steals the concept that her husband is her equal. Even though the author may not have that meaning when she writes it, it mines into the subconcious that self is at a much higher level than the other.

This disrespect, even when we are often unaware of, is most easy to be picked up, since the other have the tendency to think the same. And when this disrepect is sensed, the relationship tend to go south.